Enjoying life with others

I’ve been living this life for as long as my 25 year old daughter has been 1 yr. That’s a lifetime. I have found that you can’t dwell on the myriad of health issues and complexity of health needs, but rather, need to enjoy what you can. I have found and really enjoy and have a passion for photography. I don’t claim to be a professional, but I think I do alright and have learned a lot about this skill, hobby , and potential business opportunity. I have met a great bunch of people that share the same interests and love to see how others will photography the same thing but each will be different. This hobby lets you see the world differently and interpret it according to you, your day, your mood or more importantly, your inspiration. I have met some people that normally would likely never meet, which is great, because I have been able to see others different from me but see their passions and gifts all the while getting to know about them: a definite plus!

If my energy level is good and the ol’ bone marrow is working, dancing is another activity that I absolutely love!!! The music, the moving, the expression in dance , the mood and various rhythms of the dances takes your body and soul in different states of mind. There is nothing like dancing with a partner and you’re in sync! The ease with which you can move around the dance floor is fantastic. I can’t get enough, even though I may be exhausted, I just want to dance all night!

The grind of CKD and other chronic diseases entails many appointments, many blood tests, testing which becomes really intense when facing possible transplant or starting some form of dialysis. Both the options involves including others: Dr’s , RNs, NPs, RDs, surgeons, anesthetics on the health front, but there is also your family who’s lives are intertwined with yours. You need the input and help of all of these people to continue to enjoy your life, although this will mean changes. Surrounding yourself with positive and up-lifting people is key. You have enough on your plate without having to deal with constant “debbie downers”. Manage this and you will still have good quality of life. Connecting with others gives us so many positives and stimulates ideas, conversations and new points of interest or viewpoints.

No matter what is going on with your health, surround yourself with human contact.Make the best of things and have that Kodak moment as often as you can. After all, life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.



  1. lorlee99 · December 22, 2019

    Thanks so much!


  2. Marcia Shermanh · September 12, 2016

    Your writing is so insiteful.

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